Human beings use so much time occupying themselves with what other people think. So much energy tied up and wasted on something we have no control over and cannot do anything about, even if we tried really hard.
We all perceive from our unique consciousness level, and through these glasses (patterning) most people judge what they see, often without really knowing anything. They use the programmed mind to make assumptions, because that’s how the mind logically work. It needs to compartmentalize all things. To rationalize and try to make what it is observing fit together, so that it makes sense. The problem is, one usually does not have all the insights needed to see the whole picture, and then what you in truth have comforted yourself with, is an illusion or even a lie.
Another unfortunate consequence of worrying about what other people think, is that so many dim their light and true, authentic amazingly talented selves, just so others won’t feel uncomfortable or because they fear not being liked. Think about all that potential and opportunity, - limited, held back and never realized, because we are so afraid to BE all that we are. Afraid to share. Afraid of openness. Afraid of disagreement. Afraid of judgement. Afraid of so many things.
For several years now, my favorite question in my liberation process and with my clients, has been «What is the worst that can happen?» and then go on asking this same question again and again after every answer. Eventually, you get pretty deep down into the core of what the fear in truth is about. Usually I work further with this to transmute it (breathing/meditation/TFT), but even if you don’t go there, you’re still left with a rather good idea of what is keeping you from being or doing something, only by asking yourself this simple, but profound question. Something as little as this awareness, may be your first step towards changing your life to more freedom. Freedom INSIDE. This is what matters, how you perceive yourself and your life to be and how you FEEL about, because this is what you vibrate.
So, why is what we vibrate important?
It is important because EVERYTHING is vibrational before it materializes into physical form (your life). Even if you never say a word, you create your reality through what you send out from the inside (thoughts/feelings all have a specific frequency).
Think about all that talk you have with yourself during a day. How much of it is negative or limiting, - thoughts of lack or gap between who/where you are and who/where you want to be, thoughts like «not possible», «very difficult» etc? How much is about assuming, judging, evaluating a situation, yourself or others? How much is about holding yourself back, being less, being a victim, feeling small?
The emotions that every single one of these thoughts create, are powerful frequencies that are being sent out into your holographic field and reality, and the more thoughts that build up around those same emotions, the quicker and bigger you will manage to manifest them into your life.
Now, think about what we can create if we manage to focus our thoughts towards imagining and weaving in an existence that is on the top shelf, for this planet, for each other and for ourselves, and choose that.
To be able to grasp and embody this, is part of self mastery, one of the most important reasons why we are here...to learn how to master ourselves and our creations/lives. No one else’s.